What was Padre Pio Like as a Spiritual Father?
“Stories of Padre Pio” by Madame Katharina Tangari
When we speak of Padre Pio as a spiritual father, we need to keep in mind that he was not a spiritual father in the ordinary sense. His way of guiding souls was completely different – indeed necessarily different – from the common way, because he did not have available the ordinary means and possibilities required for spiritual guidance. Thus, for example, Padre Pio was not always able to give us personal attention; there was not enough time for long discussions, conversations or instructions. Nor were we able to be guided by him in writing; only his very first spiritual children had the benefit of having been guided and supported by his highly inspired letters. However, after 1924, the ever-growing ranks of Padre Pio’s spiritual children to longer had this benefit.
Nor was it always easy to reach Padre Pio: innumerable obstacles would come between him and us. Granted, we could use our Confessions to him to ask for his advice, but is was not always so simple to get to these Confessions, which for that matter were restricted to a very limited time, a few minutes. Nor was Padre Pio a preacher, who could guide us by his living word, nor a writer, who could convey his teaching to us through his writings. For decades he lived in the faraway, isolated monastery of San Giovanni Rotondo, and his days were spent exclusively in the monastery or in the church.
How then was he able to gather around himself a multitude of innumerable spiritual children, spread throughout the world? Was it possible for him to be a real spiritual father for all these children? What was the basis for his care of souls? What means did he adopt? And what was the secret of his success? To all these questions there is only one answer: the real and proper source of his mission, of his apostolate, was his intimate union with Christ – above al with Christ Crucified – the union by which he lived and from which he drew all gifts for himself and for us.
His art of quiding souls was based solely on this union of his with Christ and upon the graces that flow from it. From this union alone he received the necessary means, and among these, in the first place, were assiduous prayer, absolute purity of life, intense participation in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass – in which he always included his spiritual children – and the surprising constancy and fortitude in offering with simplicity, humility and docility his own sufferings for the love of Jesus and of souls. It should not surprise us that his care for souls, which rested on this basis and used such means, should have an efficacy all its own and be capable of moving with great simplicity, and quite naturally, in the sphere of the supernatural. It would instead be surprising if that were not the case.
